Respite Care in Southwest Florida

Respite care brings in a private caregiver so the person doing the caring can rest, run errands, or take a real break, for an afternoon, a weekend, or longer. Abby Services, a Florida-licensed nurse registry, connects families in Fort Myers, Cape Coral, Naples, and across Southwest Florida with screened caregivers who step in while you step away.

Reviewed by Scott Strachan, RN BSN · Updated October 2026

Get started your way

Call 239-590-0861Office hours Mon–Fri, 8am–4pm. On call 24/7 for urgent needs.Tell us what you needA short online form. We follow up with options and pricing. No obligation.Have us call youPick a time. We call during business hours.

What happens next

  1. 1
    We talk through your needs. A free conversation about your loved one, the schedule, and location.
  2. 2
    You review pricing and sign online. No office visit or in-home sales call needed.
  3. 3
    We match caregivers to your needs. You and your caregiver set the schedule, and you can request a different caregiver anytime.
  • Serving families since 1997
  • RN-owned, local team
  • AHCA-licensed nurse registry
  • Level 2 background-screened caregivers
Typical total cost$30–$35/hrfor 6–12 hour visitsSee pricing

Did you know?

Families have left Abby Services more Google reviews than almost any other in-home care service in Fort Myers and Cape Coral.

Get started your way

Call 239-590-0861Office hours Mon–Fri, 8am–4pm. On call 24/7 for urgent needs.Tell us what you needA short online form. We follow up with options and pricing. No obligation.Have us call youPick a time. We call during business hours.

What happens next

  1. 1
    We talk through your needs. A free conversation about your loved one, the schedule, and location.
  2. 2
    You review pricing and sign online. No office visit or in-home sales call needed.
  3. 3
    We match caregivers to your needs. You and your caregiver set the schedule, and you can request a different caregiver anytime.
Tom Strachan, founder of Abby Services, who lived with Parkinson's disease and Lewy body dementia

Tom Strachan

Founder, Abby Services, 1997

Why Respite Is Personal for Us

My father Tom founded Abby Services in 1997. He later lived with Parkinson's disease that progressed to Lewy body dementia, and my mom became his primary caregiver. A caregiver referred through Abby Services gave her respite: a few hours each week to rest, run errands, and recharge.

Honestly, she could have used more support than she accepted. Letting someone else in was a hard transition for her, as it is for so many spouses. If you're carrying the load right now, starting with just a few hours is okay, and it can make a real difference in how long you're able to keep going.

— Scott Strachan, RN, BSN, Owner

Taking a break isn't giving up

Family caregivers put off doctor's appointments, skip vacations, and lose sleep — and caregiver burnout is one of the most common reasons a loved one ends up in a facility earlier than anyone wanted. Rest isn't a luxury. It's what makes long-term caregiving sustainable. And if you're watching a parent or spouse wear themselves down caring for someone else, arranging respite may be the most loving gift you can give them.

Respite care means a screened, credentialed caregiver steps in while you recharge — for a few hours a week, a weekend away, or an extended trip. You explain the routines that work, and your caregiver follows your lead, so you can actually relax knowing things are handled the way you'd handle them.

How Respite Caregivers Help

A respite caregiver picks up where you leave off — the same daily support you provide, from someone qualified to provide it.

  • Companionship and supervision while you're away
  • Meal preparation and help at mealtimes
  • Medication reminders and daily routine support
  • Personal care — bathing, dressing, and grooming
  • Standby help with walking, transfers, and mobility
  • Light housekeeping to keep things running
  • Overnight and weekend coverage
  • Extended coverage for travel or your own recovery

Signs It May Be Time for Respite Support

Caregivers are usually the last to admit they need relief. It may be time for respite if you — or a caregiver you love — are:

  • Exhausted even after sleeping, or not sleeping at all
  • Skipping your own doctor's appointments and self-care
  • Feeling irritable, resentful, or guilty about feeling that way
  • Canceling plans so often that friends have stopped asking
  • Getting sick more often, or ignoring your own symptoms
  • Unable to remember your last real day off

If any of this sounds familiar, our team is happy to help you find the best path forward — for your loved one, and for you. For a fuller checklist and a downloadable self-assessment, see our guide to the signs of caregiver burnout.

★★★★★
“We were looking for an extra caregiver for my parents for a short time. Abby was recommended and I can see why. The people I spoke to were helpful and answered all my questions… The caregivers were kind and helpful.”
M. M. · Google review

How it works

Getting started is simple, and there's never any pressure.

1

Call us

Tell us about your loved one and what's going on. The consultation is free.

2

Talk through your needs

Our RN is available to help you identify the type of support your loved one needs — you decide what to request.

3

Meet your caregiver

We refer screened, credentialed caregivers who align with your requests. You choose the fit.

4

Stay in control

Adjust hours and direction anytime as needs change. You're always in charge.

Paying for In-Home Care

Worried about what care costs? You're not alone. Here are the most common ways families cover in-home care:

Private pay

The most common option — pay only for the hours you actually need, and scale up or down anytime.

Long-term care insurance

Many policies cover in-home care. We help you make sense of the paperwork. Learn about LTC insurance →

Veterans' benefits

Veterans and surviving spouses may qualify for aid that helps offset the cost of in-home care.

What does respite care cost?

Typical 2026 totals families in Lee, Collier, and Charlotte Counties see, including the caregiver's fee and our registry fee. A few hours a week is a common place to start, and a weekend away or extended trip can be arranged with extended or around-the-clock visits. The longer the visit, the lower the hourly cost.

  • Short visits

    $100–$150per visit

    1–3 hours · one hour is about $100

  • Part-day

    $40–$45per hour

    4–6 hours

  • Best value

    Extended visits

    $30–$35per hour

    6–12 hours

  • Around-the-clock

    $24–$30per hour

    24/7 coverage

  • Live-in

    $350–$450per day

    With rest and sleep periods

Ranges are for information only. Your cost depends on the caregiver you choose and the schedule you need, and we'll review it with you before care begins.

See the full cost guide →

Prefer We Call You?

Leave your number and the best time to reach you. We'll call during business hours, Monday through Friday, 8am to 4pm, to talk through respite options. Need help sooner? Call 239-590-0861.

We’ll email you helpful information so you’re prepared for our call.

Respite Care Questions, Answered

As long as you need — a few hours so you can get to your own appointments, regular weekly relief, overnight or weekend coverage, or extended care while you travel or recover from your own surgery. Many families start with one afternoon a week and adjust from there.

That worry is the biggest reason caregivers don't take breaks — and the best answer is a gradual start. Request a caregiver before you absolutely need one, begin with short visits while you're still home, and stay present to evaluate and guide. Once you've found a good fit, we recommend a routine schedule — support you can count on, from a familiar face your loved one knows. And if you later need more coverage, you already have a trusted caregiver to call first.

In most cases, yes. Tell us what your days actually involve — supervision, redirection, transfers, personal care — and we'll refer caregivers with the credentials and experience those needs require. The honest answer: the best time to start is before things are critical. When dementia has progressed to where someone may be a danger to themselves or a caregiver, finding the right fit is more challenging — not impossible, and we'll gladly try, but we won't know until we know. One more reason not to wait.

Absolutely — that's actually what we recommend. Regular, scheduled respite is the most effective kind, because a consistent caregiver becomes a familiar face rather than a stranger, and a family caregiver who takes care of themselves is able to keep being there for their loved one. Every Tuesday afternoon does more for burnout than one rescue weekend a year.

You can request a different caregiver at any time — no hard feelings, no hassle. The right personality match matters, and your feedback helps us identify better candidates for you. We'll keep working with you until you find the right fit.

Often within 24 hours during the work week — the real timeline depends on how quickly the key pieces come together: documents, payment arrangements, and your caregiver preferences. Once those are in place, we can make a match. That said, this isn't a perfect world, and emergencies happen. If you're facing a crisis — a fall, a hospital discharge, a family caregiver who's burned out — call us, and we'll prioritize your search. In urgent situations, care can be arranged in as little as an hour.

Medicare generally does not pay for ongoing private caregivers. Long-term care insurance often does once the policy's benefit triggers are met, and Abby Services helps with the documentation insurers expect. Learn how long-term care insurance works with Abby Services. Veterans and surviving spouses may also qualify for VA benefits that help offset the cost.

Respite is priced like other in-home care. Your cost depends on the caregiver you choose and the schedule you need, and the total includes our registry fee. Typical 2026 totals run about $40–$45 an hour for 4–6 hour visits and $30–$35 an hour for 6–12 hour visits, with shorter visits costing more per hour. See the cost table on this page or our full cost guide.